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Insights That'll Lead You Into Loving Me

According to a unique study, by the psychologist, Arthur Aron, intimacy between two strangers will be accelerated by having them answer a particular series of personal questions. The concept (I believe in) is that shared vulnerability forms a bond.

Throughout this journal entry I am welcoming you to grow intimate with me, as I truthfully answer some of Dr. Aron's binding questions.

Perhaps, once we meet you'll reciprocate to me the pleasure of learning and loving the special individual you are...

Q: Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

A: Given the choice of anyone in the world, I would want to have a delicious dinner with you dear reader: an impassioned, caring, intelligent and upstanding gentleman as my dinner date.

I would not want to share an evening with anyone less.

Q: What would constitute a perfect day for you?

A: A perfect day for me, would consist of...

Waking up fully rested, with a beautiful day visible from my bedroom window... Putting together the perfect outfit, hair and makeup look... Going for a stroll somewhere with lovely scenery... Being pampered... Going on a shopping spree... Appreciating some form(s) of art... Enjoying delectable fine foods & wine... Inspiring happiness within someone... Intimacy with someone dear...

Q: When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

A: I sing to myself everyday. The last time I'd sung in front of others, was sometime ago in church.

Q: For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

A: I feel most grateful for all of the remarkable connections and relationships I have come to have through escorting. I am blessed to know some truly special people, and to have exceptional life experiences and opportunities many do not come across.

Q: If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

A: Having grown up from the humblest of beginnings, I personally understand how poverty can take away from the care and affection a child receives from their parents. Poverty creates an uneasy environment, where unfortunately all too often the last concern is expression of love.

Q: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

A: I would wake up with the ability to speak all languages fluently... Oh, all the wonderful connections and experiences to be had!..

Q: If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

A: I would want to know life's meaning and purpose.

Q: What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

A: The greatest accomplishment of my life to date, is that I live the way I want to live unashamedly. It is all too easy to get caught up into everyone else's wants and expectations of you... I see absolutely no point in living my life suppressing my own desires to take on someones.

Q: What do you value most in a friendship?

A: Affection and care.

Q: What does friendship mean to you?

A: Kindred spirits meant to support one another and grow together in this lifetime, while enjoying the journey.

Q: What roles do love and affection play in your life?

A: Love and affection are the primary roles in my life. I am lead by love, and my desire to continuously demonstrate affection.

Q: When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

A: The last time I cried in front of another person, was when I was moved to tears at someones immense love for me... By myself, frequently. Far more tears of happiness and gratitude, than sad.


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