Insights That'll Lead You Into Loving Me

According to a unique study, by the psychologist, Arthur Aron, intimacy between two strangers will be accelerated by having them answer a particular series of personal questions. The concept (I believe in) is that shared vulnerability forms a bond.

Throughout this journal entry I am welcoming you to grow intimate with me, as I truthfully answer some of Dr. Aron's binding questions.

Perhaps, once we meet you'll reciprocate to me the pleasure of learning and loving the special individual you are...

Q: Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

A: Given the choice of anyone in the world, I would want to have a delicious dinner with you, dear reader: an impassioned, caring, intelligent and upstanding gentleman as my dinner date. The prospect of sharing a meal with someone of your caliber fills me with anticipation and excitement!

I would not want to share an evening with anyone less.

Q: What would constitute a perfect day for you?

A: A perfect day for me includes waking up rested to a beautiful view, dressing impeccably, strolling in scenic areas, being pampered, shopping, appreciating art, savoring fine food and wine, inspiring happiness, and sharing intimacy with someone dear.

Q: When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

A: I sing to myself everyday. The last time I had sung in front of others was sometime ago in church.

Q: For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

A: I feel most grateful for all of the remarkable connections and relationships I have come to have through professional companionship, a profession that has offered me not only financial independence but also a unique platform to meet a diverse array of individuals from various walks of life. Each encounter has enriched my understanding of human nature and has allowed me to forge bonds that are often deep and meaningful. I am blessed to know some truly special people, including clients who have become friends, and fellow companions who share their own stories and experiences, creating a sense of camaraderie that is both comforting and empowering. These relationships often transcend the transactional nature of the work, evolving into genuine connections that provide emotional support and understanding in a world that can sometimes feel isolating. Additionally, I have had exceptional life experiences and opportunities many do not come across, such as traveling to new places, exploring different cultures, and participating in events that broaden my horizons. Each of these experiences has contributed to my personal growth and has allowed me to develop a more profound appreciation for the complexities of life and the beauty of human interaction. Through professional companionship, I have not only built a network of incredible individuals but also cultivated a deeper sense of gratitude for the rich tapestry of experiences that life has to offer.

Q: If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

A: Having grown up from the humblest of beginnings, I personally understand how poverty can take away from the care and affection a child receives from their parents. The pressures of financial hardship can lead to situations where parents, overwhelmed by their own worries, may inadvertently neglect to show warmth and support, leaving children feeling isolated and emotionally deprived. Therefore, if I could change anything about the way I was raised, I would wish for a more comfortable upbringing.

Q: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

A: I would wake up fluent in all languages, unlocking wonderful connections and experiences!

Q: If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

A: I would want to know who my soulmate is.

Q: What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

A: The greatest accomplishment of my life is living unashamedly on my own terms, rather than conforming to others' expectations and suppressing my desires.

Q: What do you value most in a friendship?

A: Affection and care.

Q: What does friendship mean to you?

A: Kindred spirits meant to support one another and grow together in this lifetime, while enjoying the journey.

Q: What roles do love and affection play in your life?

A: Love and affection are the primary roles in my life, serving as the guiding principles that shape my daily actions, decisions, and interactions with others.

Q: When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

A: The last time I cried in front of someone was when I was moved by their immense love for me. Alone, I cry frequently, mostly from happiness and gratitude rather than sadness.